Well hello again!! sorry i was absent for a couple of weeks the thing was i had problems with the other blog page so here is the new one and i hope you´ll still interested in reading my stuff... so here we go again.....
So these past couple of weeks i have been thinking a lot about Fears, but not like the fear of spiders or clowns in my case, its more like the Fears in our regular life. so i looked up the definition of the word Fear, because you know i always like to go to de beginning of things so Fear is a distressing emotion aroused by a perceived threat. its a basic survival mechanism occurring in response to a specific stimulus, such as pain or the threat of danger....in other words Fear is to recognize something is bad or dangerous for us and flee far away from it!!! as a response.... interesting don't u think?
its like you can have Fear almost for everything, it could be a simple Fear like the Fear of Sankes or we can also experiment the fear to love or be loved !!!! so its a very big range of things you can be scared of.... think about it....
Some Psychologist have suggested that Fear belongs to a small set of basic or innate emotions and they could typically may occur without any external threat... so its all in our minds!!!!
and i cant stop thinking about all the times Fear had payed a very important role in our life´s even without thinking... just as a natural response... imagine all the times we had the chance to do something incredible or different and the Fear had stooped us for going for it !!!
so i guess what I'm traying to say is don't let anything scare you!!!... and well i know a person who knows a person that is so scared to feel love because he or she have the Fear to have her or his heart brooked.....and well he or she avoids everything related to this matter... and i have to say for a wile i was kinda like that till i got to the conclusion that of course it feels awful to get our heart brooked in a million peaces and to feel an enormous hole in our stomach if a relationship doesn't go the way we had planed but well if we don't give it a try how are we going to get it right ... and well everything is part of a proces but i have to say sometimes the heartache is totally worth it because if we don't give our self's to others OK... we may not get our heart broke but we also wont feel all the beautiful things love can bring... so don't be scare to Love or be Loved... as someone said : "love is like an earthquake, unpredictable, a little scary, but when the hard part is over you realize how lucky you truly are".
So to conclude sometimes we may experiment Fear and my friends dont panic Its Totallt Natural!!! but i personally think that if we feel scared of something because we think we are going to fail thats not a good reason not to try it .... beacuse even if we fail we wont get later in life the sense of what if?...... and well i think thats my biggest personal fear... to feel i could do something diferent and look back in life and realize that my fear didnt let me do it....
So for this week i want to invite you to do something you are scared of and let go the fear..... and just be your real true self!!!!
Give it a try....
" The key to change is to let go the fear"... Rosanne Cash
hehehe I'm already doing...Scary? Yes, but well.. till I try I never know...
ResponderEliminarby the way...welcome back.. good see you again!
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